DATES is hard enough without worrying that the man you’re meeting will have ridiculous expectations of your outfit.
A woman named Julie said a recent first date ended abruptly because the man was bizarrely rude to her throughout the evening – but his explanation for his behavior was the most annoying part.
Julie, who works as a hospice nurse, shared her story on TikTok after going on “the worst date ever.”
“I just had a date that was so bad I literally left,” she began.
“We talked, we had chemistry, we were excited to meet,” she continued.
But things started off on the wrong foot.
“The second he saw me he was like, ‘I recognize this dress,'” she said, swaying down to her yellow floral sundress.
“He looked like he was annoyed that he recognized it because I’d been wearing it in a picture he’d seen of me. So I wore the same dress and he was annoyed by it,” she continued.
“This led to 20+ minutes of him just staring blankly and slowly answering questions or acting completely disinterested or even belittling me,” Julie said, mimicking the rude tone in which he asked her questions.
“Then he even said, ‘Can we just not talk for two minutes?'” she recalled.
“I know I’m not the problem here. I can have a conversation, I can laugh, I can joke, I can be light,” Julie said. “But I’m not going to sit here and let myself be mistreated.
“I even confronted him a couple of times because he was so weird, I thought… I said, ‘Is something wrong? are you ok Are you mad?”‘
When her date’s behavior didn’t improve, she decided she didn’t need to extend the meeting.
“I was like, ‘I think I’ll go, I don’t think we have to do that,'” she said.
“The shocked look on his face
They both left, but Julie said the man made the evening worse with a rude message afterwards.
“That was awful,” he wrote.
When she agreed it was “really weird,” he said, “Yeah, very weird.”
“Then he said — here’s the kicker: ‘You showed up in the same dress I saw in your picture. It blew my mind.'”
When Julie told him he was “really rude” and “acted really crazy” — which is why she left — he replied, “I don’t blame you.”
Commentators on TikTok were shocked by the man’s behavior, with some saying it was a red flag.
But one suggested Julie give it another chance and go on a second date – so she can wear the same dress again.
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