His side of the story. Ian Schinelli speaks in an exclusive interview Us weekly after his separation from Jan Kramer – and he doesn’t mince his words.
“I tried to remain silent,” Schinelli began to tell Us that he read “false” statements from Kramer about their relationship and breakup. “I didn’t want to be known. I appreciated who she was and this is her world, and I respected her and that’s where I wanted to stay. Obviously in this relationship I knew I was involved in some of them, which is totally fine.
That A hill of trees Alum confirmed her split from the former Navy Seal in April 2022 after six months of dating.
“I walked away from her,” Schinelli said Us. “There were some things that weren’t good for me. I had spoken to a few people and realized that she just has a very strong, anxious attachment and that may partly be due to her ex, which, however, has endured the entire relationship. I got to a breaking point where I just couldn’t handle it because I tried – I really did. I really care for her, and I still do, but it got to a point where I had to walk away.”
He continued, “Their patterns and toxicity. It’s like I literally turned off the fuel in my life to make your life as easy as possible. I didn’t ask for anything other than going to the gym. … I would try to do as much as possible around the house.”
Kramer is known for being open about her past relationship with her ex-husband Mike Causin, who shared details about his sex addiction, cheating and resulting trust issues via her Whine Down podcast, Instagram and the former couple’s book. (Kramer and Caussin, who share two children, split for good in April 2021.)
Earlier this month, the “Why Ya Wanna” singer said she was “emotionally exhausted” following her split from Schinelli.
“If I really love myself, I will never settle for anything again. I give people a lot of grace and I understand that people make mistakes. But there are certain boundaries that I’ve been so bad at sticking to,” she said on May 10 on the It Sure Is A Beautiful Day podcast. that’s not what i want from anyone. I don’t want to be with someone who just lied to me.”
However, Schinelli disagrees.
“In the last few weeks I’ve been seeing all these, you know, articles about her being ’emotionally exhausted.’ And it’s funny because those are the words I used and now I see her using them,” he claimed. “It was strange. I said so. … I’m in such a better place in my life right now.”
“I’m not trying to hurt her,” he continued. “I just wish she would stop saying she’s healing or trying to help other people who are going through trauma or that she’s happy on her own. She is not. She has an anxious attachment. And until she’s truly happy on her own, she’ll never be happy.”
While Schinelli was talking Us “It didn’t bother him that Kramer posted about their romance via Instagram or discussed their relationship on Whine Down,” he admitted. “Jana from Michigan is pretty freaking awesome. Jana from Hollywood is a different story.”
In response to her ex’s claims, Kramer went into detail about why she’s been hesitant to open up about their breakup. “The reason I didn’t say anything further about this breakup was because Ian lied about cheating on his ex-wife and I was trying to protect her. She has become a friend of mine and I have tried to protect her privacy, but she has now given me permission to speak on her behalf,” she said in a statement Us. “Ian is furious that all his lies have been exposed and is now twisting the story.”
She continued, “I’ve since found out from many women that I wasn’t the only one during our relationship, but I’m living happily with my life and I hope he does the same.”
When asked to comment on the fraud allegations, Schinelli said Us, “I apologized to my ex-wife and admitted my mistakes. … Jana is injured and is using it against me.”
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