I’ve had sex with the “perfect” number of partners

What is your number? That was the question we asked ourselves as teenagers when we talked about how many people we had slept with.

I am a 49 year old publicist and writer from Bristol and currently in a relationship. And coincidentally, my magic number is exactly 13.

Publicist and writer Jenny Paul has had 13 sexual partners

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Publicist and writer Jenny Paul has had 13 sexual partners
She says knowing what you like and don't like in bed is crucial to enjoying it

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She says knowing what you like and don’t like in bed is crucial to enjoying it

It’s a good number of partners to have because knowing what you like and don’t like in bed is crucial to enjoying it. But here’s what else I’ve learned over the years. . .

FORGET HOW YOU LOOK

I WAS always a little nervous about sex as a teenager. I was a virgin until I was 18. One night, in his bedroom at his mother’s house, I started making out wildly with a guy I’d liked for ages.

He was 21, took the lead and gave me gentle directions. It was absolutely amazing and I had an orgasm.

We saw each other off and on for seven years. He taught me that if you focus on the moment and don’t worry about how you look, you will have many orgasms.

SLOW SEX IS GOOD SEX

I started seeing number two during one of my “break” times with number one. He was very into tantric sex. We had really slow sex with lots of deep breathing.

It was a completely different experience from having sex with the number one who loved quick sex in many different positions.

That was very tender and sweet. We would ooh and sigh and moan and hold hands for hours.

It was hot, but after a few months it just fizzled out.

PASSION MATTERS

NUMBER THREE was a cute guy, but not an alpha male at all. He was the same in bed as in life – no passion or fireworks.

Sometimes he just lost his erection and I said, “It doesn’t matter”.

I was glad to turn over and go to sleep. It lasted a few months and then we broke up.

DO NOT SLEEP WITH CO-WORKERS

NUMBER FOUR was my best friend in my late twenties. We slept in the same bed forever and didn’t have sex – but one night we did.

It was a bit strange. We had become such good friends that it was weird having sex since we didn’t really see each other that way. It took a few years, but in the end we were better off as friends.

TRY A THREESOME. . . ONCE

In my early thirties I went through an experimentation phase and met the numbers five and six in a bar through a good friend.

They were both huge, gorgeous Dutchmen. They invited me over to their house for more drinks and there they wanted to have a threesome. I told them I didn’t feel like it and didn’t know what to do.

They said, “Just lie back, close your eyes and relax.”

I was curious: how would it be? I followed her advice to close my eyes. I definitely didn’t have an orgasm as I was too nervous.

I’m glad I only did it once to see how it was. But I wouldn’t do it again.

ENDURANCE DOES NOT MEAN PLEASURE

Number seven was an affair. He was older than me, around 50 and recently divorced. We started dating and had sex one night and I was horrified to discover that he had been on Viagra. He was on me for what felt like hours.

I asked him if we could stop for a while as I wanted a glass of wine and he said ‘oh are you bored?’ The next day I went home and stopped replying to his texts.

GREAT SEX WILL NOT GET A RELATIONSHIP

I met number eight at a party. We took off each other’s pants and started dating. We were together for six months.

It was pure chemistry and I had multiple orgasms with him. We broke up after six months as the relationship was only based on sex. Otherwise we had nothing in common.

ONE NIGHT STANDS CAN BE HIT AND MISS

A HORROR show. I was extremely drunk at a party and kissed this German. We went back to his seat and both passed out half dressed.

I woke up in the morning and was disgusted to find that he had been lying sick on his side of the bed that night.

I got dressed very quickly and ran to the door before he could ask for my number.

SOME MEN PROMISE TOO MUCH AND DO NOT KEEP

I HAD a party one night and at the end of the night a guy I knew through mutual friends pulled me onto his lap and told me that he gave the best oral sex in the world and that I should try it.

I didn’t like him and I have no idea why I gave in.

He was wrong. All he did was the urban myth of licking the numbers of the alphabet. I told him to go home.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO EXPERIMENT

I was NEVER really into girls, but there was one who worked at my local pub and invited me over to her house for a drink. We were both drunk.

She told me she was bisexual and we started kissing, then showered together and went to bed.

She was better at oral sex than any man I’ve ever met. It was fun, but I didn’t want to see her again. After all, I’m into men.

TOYBOY CAN GIVE YOU BOOST

DURING my forties I decided to just give up sex forever. I guess that was the start of perimenopause.

But after a long dry spell, I met a much younger man who worked in a flower shop. It was a real confidence boost – he was 27 and I was in my mid-40s.

The sex was kind of bad, although it wasn’t his fault. He was just young and inexperienced.

After I left him he bombarded me with nude pics – so I blocked him.

13 IS REALLY LUCKY NUMBER

I met number 13 right after Christmas. He’s big, super strong, and incredible in bed. A former wrestler, he can do all sorts of stunning positions.

But he’s also a good laugh and makes me feel calm and safe when I’m with him since he’s so huge.

I know now that I have a type – tall, strong men who take the lead and dominate in bed and know what they’re doing.

I’m still with him, so I don’t want to say much more. . . But it’s the best sex I’ve ever had.

Jenny is glad she only had a threesome once to see what it was like

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Jenny is glad she only had a threesome once to see what it was like
She says sex with a toy boy was a real confidence booster

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She says sex with a toy boy was a real confidence booster

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Jessica MacLeish

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