NO ONE wants to find out their significant other is cheating on them.
But if you can recognize the signs, you can gain the upper hand in the relationship and it may even help prevent further heartbreak.
BondRees.com’s Aaron Bond, thanks to his career as a private investigator, can spot a con artist from near and far.
Bond has shared the telltale signs to look out for if you suspect your partner of cheating.
PARTNER HAS CHANGED HOW THEY COMMUNICATE
Communication is really the key in any relationship, so if something has changed in this aspect, your relationship could be in trouble.
Bond said a lack of communication from your partner is never a good sign.
He added, “If your partner isn’t discussing their day with you or doesn’t care about yours, there’s usually something going on.”
A CHANGE IN APPEARANCE
According to Bond, a change in your partner’s appearance is not a sign of infidelity per se.
The problem arises when the change in appearance is accompanied by other troubling behaviors.
“A new haircut, going to the gym more, or taking on new hobbies that require you to be away from home longer could be a sign of infidelity,” Bond said.
PARTNER AVOIDS YOU
If your partner suddenly avoids you or doesn’t want to do things they usually do to you, that could be a big red flag.
Bond explained that this behavior could be related to your partner participating in hobbies that don’t include you or being uninterested in things that used to interest them.
The private eye went on to explain: “This behavior can spiral into a spiral and appear to the outside world as if they are in a depressed state.
“They will appear lazier than usual, they will want to do nothing and they may even stop showing love to their children.
“In this state, your partner will not care about anything other than their other life.”
A CHANGE IN YOUR SEX LIFE
According to Bond, there are two distinct changes in your sex life that should be cause for concern.
First, if your partner suddenly has no interest in being intimate with you and shows you no affection, it could be a sign of cheating.
Also, if your partner brings new techniques like toys, positions, etc. into the bedroom, they could learn that from someone else.
PARTNER IS ON YOUR PHONE MORE OFTEN
Today, thanks to social media and new technologies, it’s easier than ever to be unfaithful in a relationship.
Bond warned: “If your partner has started using their phone more, or they’re being more secretive, or they’re pointing their phone down when not in use, you should be concerned.”
Another warning sign is if your partner recently changed their password on their phone or computer.
A COMBINATION OF THESE CHARACTERS
Often people have some kind of explanation for these signs and they may very well be a loyal partner.
However, if your partner is starting to show a lot of these signs, it’s probably time to run for the hills.
Bond said: “When these signs combine, it’s a very good indicator that your partner is cheating on you.”
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