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I’m a bridesmaid – the maid of honor was the most upset with my bachelorette feedback, I’m still torn

A BRIDESMAID says her feedback on her friend’s bachelorette party plan was received far worse than she could have expected.

The now-ex-bridesmaid shared the distraught text she received from the maid of honor – before the bride herself took it a step further with an over-the-top reaction.

A bridesmaid's feedback on her friend's bachelorette party plan was received far worse than she could have expected

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A bridesmaid’s feedback on her friend’s bachelorette party plan was received far worse than she could have expectedPhoto credit: Getty
The now-ex-bridesmaid said the maid of honor sent her a 21-paragraph text message when she raised concerns about the hen party plans

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The now-ex-bridesmaid said the maid of honor sent her a 21-paragraph text message when she raised concerns about the hen party plansPhoto credit: Tiktok

In a viral TikTok video, the ex-bridesmaid said she was due to travel to Charlotte, North Carolina for a bachelorette party earlier this month.

But before the trip, she told the maid of honor that she had visited Charlotte before and she didn’t think she would have enough time to do everything they had planned.

“Instead of listening, she sent a 21-paragraph text about how if [I] should have an opinion on the bachelorette party, [I] would have been the maid of honor and not just a bridesmaid,” said the ex-bridesmaid.

She posted a screenshot of some text messages in which the maid of honor urged her to look at things “with more understanding.”

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The maid of honor said that she and her co-maid of honor take their roles “seriously” and have been “toning away behind the scenes for months” and “kept at things”.

The situation worsened when TikToker reached out to the bride to express her concerns about rising travel costs.

She said she told her “how the trip got a little out of hand and got really expensive” and ended up costing more than she could afford.

Rather than being understanding, she said the bride “yelled at her”, kicked her out of the wedding and blocked her on all forms of social media.

By this point, the ex-bridesmaid had already paid for a one-way flight to Charlotte and deposited for the Airbnb, spending over $300.

She expected her flight home and planned activities to cost an additional $400, plus more money for food and Uber rides.

“For me, the way I was treated, $1,000 was too much to spend on a creek trip,” she said. “Especially considering the cost of the wedding.”

She’d tried to say it nicely to the bride and was confused that her longtime friend seemed to want to end the friendship because of it.

The maid of honor said that she and her co-maid of honor take their roles

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The maid of honor said that she and her co-maid of honor take their roles “seriously” and have been “slugging behind the scenes for months” and “staying firm on things”.Photo credit: Tiktok

“I didn’t think my honesty that I don’t find it comfortable spending $1,000 on a trip would be something to end a friendship that meant so much,” she told the bride before being blocked.

But the bride didn’t have it.

“I have no words,” the bride wrote back. “I’ve honestly lost respect for you. You made this whole thing about yourself.

“Until last night, money was never an issue. Now you just talk about it. Thank you for showing me how much this friendship means to you,” she added sarcastically.

When she later raised concerns about the cost, she was thrown out of the wedding entirely

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When she later raised concerns about the cost, she was thrown out of the wedding entirelyPhoto credit: Tiktok

“I would appreciate it if you didn’t come to my wedding,” she concluded. “Watch after.”

Unfortunately, things got even worse when the ex-bridesmaid reclaimed $100 of her Airbnb expenses.

“You ruined our entire friendship by prioritizing your discomfort over my joy,” the bride wrote to her, adding that she would refund her money because “I don’t want friends who care more about money than me.” “

She went on to blame the bridesmaid for ruining her wedding and bachelorette party planning.

Despite all this, the ex-bridesmaid continues to wish her angry ex-girlfriend well.

“I wish the bride, the newlyweds, the fiancé nothing but a good time. No bad intentions here,” she said.

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Jessica MacLeish

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