When a marriage ends in divorce, the adults are often still connected, whether through community, friends, or children. Getting along well is important to so many couples so that they can both be there for their children. However, this is easier said than done.
Why a man showed up at his ex-wife’s house
Writing about divorced adults who remain committed to their families, Codie LaChelle McPhate was inspired to write one day when she was walking by her mother’s house and saw something totally unexpected.
“This is my father mowing my mother’s lawn. They have been divorced for 28 years,” Codie wrote.
Codie explained why her father was still helping his ex-wife.
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“My mom has knee problems and my stepdad works out of town,” Codie said. “When my younger siblings asked, ‘Why is your dad mowing Mom’s lawn?’ I said to them, ‘Because she needed help and he knew she couldn’t get out of here to do it, so he did.'”
Just because the family dynamic isn’t traditional doesn’t mean it isn’t great. Although Codie’s parents have been divorced for almost 30 years, they are bound by their past love for each other and their current love for their family together.
“This is co-parenting. I am very fortunate to have 4 parents who respect each other and know that at the end of the day, all that matters is showing your kids (even if they are 32 years old) how to behave with people and like yours Loving family no matter how it came together,” Codie said.
Codie’s dad doesn’t want credit for his actions, he just likes to lead by example.
“My father is vacationing with me in Texas. He doesn’t even live here where my mother lives. So not only did he selflessly do something for her, he did it for her while he was on his VACATION,” Codie wrote. “He wants everyone to know, ‘I’m not a saint.’ He just wants to show others that during Lent there is no need to behave like an angelic pastor, but that we should all choose kindness whenever we can.”
How one man proved the importance of family
Thousands of people viewed Codie’s post and resonated with his message. Unsurprisingly, the importance of kind, respectful parents — even to those who are no longer together — resonates with people around the world.
“My dad said he didn’t do this for the recognition,” Codie wrote. “He said he and my mom decided that if we went through their divorce, they would both choose to grow up and treat each other with respect and compassion because no matter how their marriage ended, they both ended up having each other eventually.” very loved. and that, that love – counts for something. If they wanted to raise their children to be good, kind people, they had to be good, kind people.”
Codie’s father revealed that what matters is not his current relationship status, but his love for his family. Intending to be the best role model for his children, he continued to advocate for his children’s mother. Well, that’s one big happy family.
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