Being alone does not necessarily mean loneliness. Some very independent people have no qualms about requesting a table for one or vacationing alone. But for others, being left to their own devices is not a personal choice, but rather an undesirable consequence of their personality. According to astrologers, the distinction between these two types of people can lie in one’s own chart. Those who are suspicious, highly emotional, or just downright difficult to deal with are more likely to become isolated. Read on to discover the six loneliest zodiac signs, from a little lonely to abandoned and friendless.
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Aries may not seem lonely because they are so independent, but this adventurous spirit can lead them to see others as rivals. “Because Aries is a competitive sign, they don’t easily trust others, and others don’t easily trust them,” she says Emily Neuman, a spiritual healer, counselor and astrologer. “When Aries have been betrayed, they will hesitate to trust again.”
Aside from alienating those who see them as a threat, Aries sometimes seek out “vulnerable” people who are more willing to excuse their questionable behavior, he explains Victoria Thomas, an astrologer and author at Peaceful Dumpling. For these reasons, it can be difficult for this zodiac sign to find a friend group that accepts them for who they are.
Prominent astrologer and horoscope writer Kyle Thomas calls this water sign “the most sensitive zodiac sign of all because they are ruled by Neptune, the planet of spirituality, and Jupiter, the planet of hope.” But in many cases, this sensitivity can lead to an acute sense of isolation. “They’re often detached from reality and have their heads in the clouds because they prefer fantasy to cold hard facts,” says Kyle. “It can result in them being lonely souls, always in search of ‘the one,’ or indulging in their illusions, delusions, and escapism rather than settling on facts.”
But Pisces are looking for the connection, they just have to trust the other person completely. “They love with all their hearts, so when they feel betrayed they’d rather be alone,” says Newman.
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Virgos are considered the perfectionists of the zodiac, “which causes them to shut people out when they don’t feel like it’s ‘a perfect match,'” notes Kyle. On the other hand, their overly critical nature can cause others to leave the relationship. “No one wants to be with those who are constantly finding fault with others,” says Newman.
In less extreme cases, Virgo’s Type A personality can only get in the way of forming lasting bonds. They will get too bogged down in the details of planning a meeting that they won’t even be able to enjoy it.
Cancer is an extremely emotional sign. This often results in a longing for people and places, even if they are satisfied. “They’re ruled by the moon, which is a very self-reflective and nostalgic luminary,” notes Kyle, who says this can lead them to “obsess about the past, exes or ‘the one who got away’ rather than in to live in the present.”
Also, Cancer is considered the most moody sign of the zodiac. Her fluctuating feelings can be difficult for outsiders to understand and in turn drive people away. Therefore, instead of going out and meeting new people, Cancerians find solace in their family.
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Capricorns focus much of their energy on getting ahead in their work, which leaves little time for socializing and relationship building. These workaholics “place success, wealth, and career matters ahead of their personal lives,” says Kyle. “That’s something they might end up regretting down the line as they can’t find affection or love in the arms of a career.”
This sign also takes a long time to get used to people, “which prevents them from connecting with others,” notes Newman. But her alone time doesn’t exactly bother her. “They prefer to be alone and relax rather than interact with others,” adds Newman. If you invite a Capricorn to a meeting, there’s a good chance they’ll find a last-minute reason to back off so they can enjoy staying home.
Scorpios have a reputation for being mysterious and secretive. Because they are like that, they assume that others are too, which causes them to be very suspicious and suspicious of people. “They take their time getting to know someone and may prefer their own company until they’re sure of the connection,” Newman says.
And if they feel they’ve been wronged (which is easy to do), they’ll immediately put up a wall. “This can leave them holding on to trauma and fearing intimacy, trust and vulnerability at the expense of opening up again,” Kyle warns. “As a solid sign, they are stubborn and resist change and have trouble moving on.” Once a Scorpio decides to leave society behind, they may enjoy their own company so much that they will not come out of hiding.
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